HAVING BOUNDARIES IS THE SAFEST WAY TO LIVE

In these time of lock-down we are becoming more accustomed to limited social interaction with others and on reflection I feel it is a good thing if we become more cautious. In a world where AI analytics  monitor individuals mercilessly, and where many people lack the moral and ethical values to respect that we are all different and do not place the same value on certain lifestyles.

Eg I have never set up a Twitter account or a Whatsapp - I do not use a mobile phone - I do not use Facebook nor Instagram. I respect the rights of others to use such platforms and the like.

I used to get mistaken in the supermarket for other people - I have been falsely accused of having affairs with famous people, whom I have never met, I have been accused of being in more than one place simultaneously, I have been falsely accused of being a lesbian, when i have been a lifelong heterosexual, I have falsely been accused of all sorts - yet have completely innocent - I wish the police would round up the false accusers and throw them in jail for at least one night - it may stop such recidivists from re-offending.

Some trolls set up fake twitter and Facebook accounts, purporting to be someone else, using their data and then conducting a hate campaign, meanwhile the innocent person is maligned when they know nothing about the accounts. I had been stalked for many years. Recently I put a search of my name in Google and saw a website where 5 women - black and white famous all except me - and one picture of Jarrod Lawson, the only male was on this website. I have no idea how I made it on to a 'stalkers' website - I was not famous I was being subjected to a vicious hate campaign not sure of the gender of the hater!

Many years ago, I was warned that they may have been a hate campaign against me and that I needed to be mindful. I had been followed by men and stalked on the internet for many years and had no idea why, as I am just an ordinary person.

I find such people are venomous snakes - but also stalkers are dangerous, and should steps should be taken to ensure one's safety.

Being realistic there is not enough room to house all of these offenders - there are too many other big fish to fry.

I have always believed the Bob Marley song's sentiments - if a friend betrays you then they are not trustworthy - this can apply to friends. family, neighbours etc.

A few years ago I lost my trust in mankind in general - and am slowly working my way back to a different way of connecting with people that is safe and equitable.

Examples of fall- outs between decent, kind people

When the love turns to hate

Many kind and loving people have faced the vitriol of the public and have all lost close friendships.

I do not put myself in the category of the rich and famous - but I have been subject to constant verbal insults - hate crimes - my businesses have been targeted over the past 3-4 years, I have had men drive verbally abuse me from their cars while driving past, I have been called names that represent - women of a promiscuous nature - whilst I am devout and strictly celibate - my personal details have been discussed openly in zoom conferences - all of which is illegal - and have just had to become more resilient.

I keep myself to myself - I have a tiny inner circle - I no longer mix with gossipy, venomous family (small minority), malicious neighbours, the list goes on - I fear it will only worsen as we live deeper in the ends times. 

To my utter relief - I found joy and solace in the book of ISAIAH which advised to lean on YAHWEH and on his means for eternal happiness and salvation, his son Yeshua. It keeps me sane. happy and safe!

CHAPTERS 53, 59 ISAIAH

I had a shocking experience with a so called malicious group of church sisters and their networks - and I lost my faith in their humanity - I still do not trust them - I do not know whether this side of Armageddon - I will regain that trust - I am safer WFH and am more willing to say NO to people and places that I do not feel comfortable with.

As we progress toward the great tribulation - small house churches/meetings are the way forward. In order for that to take place - each member of the group has to have complete trust in one another - I trust in God;' ability to keep me safe whether I stick with the group or not.